I met Death again when I was 17 and a friend died in a car accident. This re-introduction was loaded with confusion, disillusionment, anger, grief and longing. I began to understand why Death was hard, scary and unwanted.

It was the first time I experienced waves of emotions that I was both aware of and unable to control. Fine one minute, crying inconsolably the next. Death stayed with me for months. Sometimes a shroud separating me from life, sometimes a stone in the pit of my stomach, sometimes a void I thought I might fall into.

That first visit was hard, but as with all things - I asked what there was for me to learn. And it was this:

While we are all alone - my grief was not the same as my friend’s mother’s or father’s as we sat in a room remembering here…we are also all connected. In the universal way we all experience a range of emotions through experience.

The “other side” is so elusive and scary. I have found many people have no way forward to connect with it. To believe the veil is thin and that we can receive guidance and presence from those passed on is not a “normal” belief. Not even necessarily a welcome one. Some dismiss it outright and some argue it cannot be.

In the end, it is a subjective choice.

But for me, in the deep silence, in an inner opening, in moments of joy and gratitude, in learning to listen to myself and asking for assistance from ancestors- I cannot help but believe the universe is one of wholeness and connection - material AND energetic.

I have met Death many times since those early, young days. Death came to visit family, friends and loved ones, each time leaving me with nothing but their impressions on my heart and soul - a weak consolation to their presence in my life.

November first is the day after All Hallow’s Eve, a time when the portal is believed to be thin and connection easier.

If you choose to explore or honor here are some options:

• Light a candle and think of someone passed on. Spend a quiet moment in happy remembrance for having known them

• Create an altar to ancestors or loved ones, visit it daily until the New Moon in November 19 (Scorpio) when it is good to close the portal of visiting and make room for new beginnings

• Set a place at the table and invite a dearly departed to join you for a meal

Death and rebirth are continuous cycles that mark the passing of one hour into another, one day into another, a season, a phase of life, an evolution of self.

It is a time for reflection and for gently releasing unresolved grief and longing to make room for more happiness.

Ultimately Death, in all its many visits has taught me that life is a constant series of transformations of one form into another. To let go of the grief is not to give up the memories or the importance those passed had on your life. It is simply a rhythm of constant birthing, holding on, and letting go of moments and people - whether we want to or not.

On this day when the veil is thin - it is a great time to reflect on your relationship with Death. On what you are releasing and inviting in, on what is thriving and what is ready to pass on to it’s next evolution. There may be tears and sadness. But ultimately, let there be compassion and grace for these are Death’s greatest gifts when we are ready to receive them.

✨ Why the real work isn’t healing—it’s capacity, alignment, and sovereignty

Let’s bust a myth right now:

“I’ve done my healing, so I’m good now.”

That’s like saying: “I’ve cleaned my house once, so it’ll never get dirty again.”

Here’s the truth: Healing isn’t a checkbox. It’s not a destination. And it’s definitely not a one-and-done deal.

It’s a sacred path you’re on for life.

You don’t need more effort.
You need more energetic coherence.

The old way says:
“Push harder. Work more. Prove your worth.”

But the sacred way says:

“Be the frequency. Let your field do the work.”

And if you’ve been doing all the things—posting, launching, healing, showing up—but it’s still not landing, let me gently offer this:

✨ It’s not your strategy.
✨ It’s your frequency.

✨ A sacred shift for soul-led women navigating nervous system healing, visibility resistance, and the energetic consolidation before quantum embodiment.

Let’s reframe the noise in your mind and the ache in your chest.

You’re not lost.
You’re not failing.
You’re not too much.

You’re standing at a soul-level threshold—and the pressure you’re feeling? That’s not a breakdown. It’s consolidation. Refinement. Sacred tension before embodiment.

Let’s call it out right now - change is uncomfortable. That’s not a secret. But the real problem? It’s what happens when we avoid it. When we resist the change process so long, it starts resisting us right back.

Energetically, emotionally, physically—your body keeps the score. And the longer you stay locked in familiar patterns, the more those patterns calcify. What starts as stress becomes inflammation. What begins as a mindset loop becomes a nervous system pattern. That pattern becomes premature aging, brain fog, chronic fatigue, and dis-ease.

Resistance isn’t neutral—it’s corrosive.

And the longer we wait, the harder it becomes to shift.

Feeling exhausted no matter how much rest you get? You’re not alone. Energy burnout is more than just physical fatigue—it’s an energetic depletion that leaves you feeling stuck, uninspired, and disconnected. And if you're a healer, coach, or spiritual entrepreneur, this constant drain can sabotage your business, relationships, and ability to manifest abundance.

But here’s the good news: You don’t have to stay in this cycle. In this post, we’ll break down why you’re feeling drained and the exact steps you can take today to reset your energy and reclaim your power.

Do you ever feel like no matter how much you meditate, journal, or visualize, something is still blocking your energy? You’re doing “all the things,” but instead of feeling radiant and magnetic, you’re running on fumes.

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Energy leaks, emotional clutter, and subconscious resistance can keep you stuck in a low vibration—making it nearly impossible to manifest your desires.

The good news? You don’t need a full-blown spiritual retreat to reset your energy. With the right tools and practices, you can clear blocks, restore balance, and step into effortless manifestation right now.

Are you feeling disconnected from nature’s magic? Life’s chaos can make it hard to stay grounded, leaving you yearning for a deeper connection. The good thing is you don’t need to spend hours learning complex rituals or studying spirituality to align with the seasons. With the right tools, you can embrace soulful, seasonal practices that transform your life—effortlessly.